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MARRIAGE LIFE AS A STUDENT

by isiaka mariam
September 17th 2021
00:24:10
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Daily as we grow older and experience life a time will come in our life where we think about our other half . But you see getting married as a student has been a topic that has been argued , talk on ... More
Yeah good morning, good afternoon, good evening wherever you are listening to this wonderful podcast I could explore with Miriam my name is is Erica Miriam your humble podcast to an entrepreneur and I'm also an activist and also an auto. So I have here with me guest a very special guest. Um Jamila Osmond Jamila Guzman is a fashion designer, she's in monetary in activities and she's also a wonderful entrepreneur. So at the end of this section dropping A Andrew so you can follow her or getting to try to before that. Our topic for today is marriage life as a student. Marriage life as a student. Like merely hearing that topic, I believe we all understand what that means but I just want us to give, I just want to give us a little insight on the word marriage like marriage journey together of a man or woman to become one um husband and wife corpus.

So we have different definitions but that is my own definition of we're married. So I will allow our guests to give us our own definition of the world marriage. So ma you have to feel yeah thanks so much. Welcome to marriage is a union between a man and a woman. Okay and it's a contract between a man and woman who chooses each other. Okay bye bye. Any bond that a chart who told them together beats love or anyone that's too. Okay. Oh for your purpose. Okay that was yeah that's nice. That's nice. So mom has already given us a wonderful definition of the word marriage and I believe you all understand that. So, so this topic, married life as a student. So why are we having this wonderful topic today is actually because um, particularly as a student, I have a lot of colleagues of mine.

I do complain that okay, it's not easy like being married in school because school alone is stress, you know, attending lectures and orgasm test and everything. Then you're getting married, another stress on dog. So I want our guests here to like analyzing how someone can manage the kind of stress, you Know about the stress of getting my child in school that is as a student. Um to me it's 5050 because everything in life has its own advantage and like why is it disadvantages? So talking about the advantages of getting married in school is avoiding so many things just like being in a relationship and so on. And Margaret give going self esteem, must self horny. So you've been married in school, you're getting does self esteem myself and that there's a, there's what I called um get to married to me.

I don't even know how to put it, but let me put it in this way. Didn't this lemon english? So everyone was going to understand and get what I'm trying to arrive at. Um okay, we're talking about getting Margaret, why in school. Okay, okay, it's just like being into regulation ship that you sign in for and Margaret is not always about, Okay, let's be a team doing house calls and always has calls and everything else like that. And being in school when you know you're you're market, there will be a way you're going to divide the tax time, your tax and everything. So now okay, let's talk about a disadvantage. Okay. It's because um maybe maybe your attention will be divided or something like that. But I don't think that should be an issue as a student. You being marketed as a student because everything has its own side. Like okay, the position of my husband or my stuff is going to pie is different from that, from that of his singles from that of a student that me being a student, there are two different things and I don't think one we hinder the order.

Okay. And um okay let's see that maybe one will be complaining that academic issues, stuff like that, you know, I don't think because our brain naturally is complete, it works more than a computer. So there are many chamber for it to work and can accommodate many things. There is, if only if you plan your days and your teams well appropriate. So I don't think there's any to me. I don't think there's any stress, you know, so I don't think there's any um disadvantages. I don't think there's any, you know, I don't think there's any demerit about it. Yes. And that some people would be like I just have to finish school like that. You know there's no anything dragons, there's nothing in the Merida to hinder you from. I'm not going to school for not being a student that you want to be. Okay. Okay. So um Wow that was a very wonderful section actually because I had something like 5050 pros and call like you have to know how you have to manage yourself like being a student than being married.

Like the advantages you have as being a student that is married is different from that of a student that is not married. Okay mom, but what about the letters I'm assuming right now let's zoom. Maybe your husband stay very far ready stances and your schools and maybe you really need attention and or maybe you're close to exam period and all and you really want some attention from your husband. You think that your husband that's staying in fire replaces where is well carrying into? We want to come here for his right because she needs some attention. Why not you as a student goes missing. Okay. So what I'm saying that market is also an agreement. Okay. So at least for your house before you get married before you agreed on before you say yes you guys would have had an agreement and your husband have to be an understanding. You'll be that it has to be an understanding my understanding spouse that this my spouse is in school.

So I have these limits to what I can request for. Okay like the distance um is this what I'm doing is um and doing things, I don't think there will be only doing school activities. I'm doing this I'm doing here is I'm going to school so it's a bit different. I don't think the uh like there's no and I was never a doubt, I'll be like okay, this is um quite all right. Some days are always demanding too. They will have time to so it has to sort of us have to give do you suppose those excuse of? Okay um let me give an east on a friend of mine. She wants to get married. I want to mention that friend. So the some person graduating wants to get married to her by staying in a very far away distant, like not in Nigeria, so and she is a student here in Nigeria. So she was like, okay number one that okay, even though that's going to get married to in that state in a very far places, Number two, she still a student that has to be very, very strong, stressful for her and the number three that okay, what's it after is married?

There doesn't have a time like it doesn't, I would not like okay that that it has to be like you said understanding between them. Right, communication, what about that doesn't matter in that kind of relationship. You know long distance relationship is very hard for you guys to communicate with each other and then you're not married as it was Ryan flee out because you are a student Actually students also like is he really that I can just do it and have a correlation that only will lead to disagreement between the doctor. You think there's a way uh both of them since is staying far staying here too that we have also seen people that there are no students but yes their marriage life distance and you know the end of this technology I think done the technology can help them and that's in your you think to technology can so you believe that money does not really have more disadvantages like being a student and getting married doesn't really have disadvantages later.

It has more of an advantage is like more than disaster disadvantage. Right wow wow. So you hold it for my wonderful guests today like we were supposed to relate this back to yesterday but unfortunately I guess are something she had to think to urgently and she honored my request today my invitation. Thank you very much ma'am I really appreciate it. I really really evenly enough affair at least even lighting us about something. She is very nice. So you can drop your question and recommendation and your comment and please do subscribe to this channel. So uh mom please can you tell them your social media under so they can follow you anytime already have any question they can just ask you, maybe you treat uh instagram facebook. Mhm. Okay, for my facebook. Okay, my user name is, so our facebook name is um Guzman Jamila.

Okay, it's man Djamila with you uh U C H M E N D N Is J M W E O K J M W E L. Let me come again. You C H M A N J E M W E L A right Camilla. So that is a facebook and uh on my facebook and my g uh hyphen uh Katie. Okay, so you've all had and it's a very wonderful section and I enjoy it and I believe you do enjoy it also. So when you want another podcast suggestions should come in, appreciate it. Nice avenue, you're listening to the paint. Really appreciate it. Thank you very much. Bye ma. Any word for our audience before we just close, are we expecting more comments?

And that is my first time? Okay, nice to me in the poster of me, questioning any podcast, wow, sincerely, I'm really busy. Uh this is swell. Okay, I'm I'm prepared. That's nice. That's nice. I don't know. No, actually I need to be on hold to be featured in the next uh that's nice. That's nice. No problem, no problem. Okay, bye everybody, bye. Good morning. Good afternoon, good evening wherever you are listening to this wonderful podcast I could explore with Miriam, my name is is Erica. Miriam your humble podcaster and entrepreneur and I'm also an activist and also an auto. So I have here with me guest a very special guest. Um Jamila Usman, Jamila Guzman is a fashion designer, she's in Monterey in activities and she's also a wonderful entrepreneur.

So at the end of this section dropping A Andrew so you can follow up or getting caught with us. But before that our topic for today is marriage life as a student, marriage, life as a student. Like merely hearing that topic, I believe we all understand what that means but I just want us to give, I just want to give us a little insight on the word marriage. That marriage journey together of a man or woman to become one um dos van a wife corpus. So we have different definitions but that is my own definition of what marriage. So I will allow our guests to give us our own definition of the world marriage. So ma you have to feel. Yeah thanks so much. Welcome. So marriage is a union between a man and a woman. Okay and it's a contradiction. A minor woman who chooses each other. Okay well Bondo by any bone that tract we're talking together beats love or any other materials to oh for your purpose.

Okay that was nice to be wow, that's nice, that's nice. So mom has already given us a wonderful definition of the word marriage and I believe you all understand that. So so this topic, married life as a student. So what are we having this wonderful topic today is actually because um particularly as a student, I have a lot of colleagues of mine, I don't complain that okay, it's not easy like being married in school because school alone is stress, you know, attending lectures and orgasm saying stand everything. Then you're getting married than other stress on top. So I want our guests here to like a laziness, how someone can manage the kind of stress, you know about the stress of getting my in school that is other students. Um to me it's 5050 because everything in life has its own advantage and likewise it disadvantages.

So talking about the advantages of getting married in school is avoidance. So many things just like being in a as a relationship and so on and marriage give going self esteem and self harm. So you being married and school, you are getting their self esteem myself and that there's a, there's what I called um mm get emerge Yeah. To me, I don't even know how to put it, but let me put it in this way. This lemon english. So everyone was going to understand and get what I'm trying to arrive at. Okay, um, okay, we're talking about getting married twice in school, Okay, okay, it's just like being into a relationship that you sign in for and Margaret is not always about, okay, let's be a team doing house calls and always has cause and everything like that.

And being in school when you know you, you are Margaret, there will be a way you're going to divide the tax time, your tax and everything. So now, okay, let's talk about a disadvantage. Okay. It's because, um, maybe maybe your attention will be divided or something like that. But I don't think that should be an issue as the students you being marketed because everything has its own site. Like okay, the position of my husband or my spouse is going to pie is different from that, from that, from that of a student that me being a student. There are two different things and I don't think one we hinder the other. Okay. And okay, let's see that maybe one will be complaining that academic issues, stuff like that, you know, I don't think because our brain naturally is complete, it's worth more than a comforter.

So there are many chamber for it to work and accommodates many things. There is if, if you plan your days and your team's well appropriate. So I don't think there's any to me. I don't think there's any stress, you know, so I don't think there's honey. Um, these are granted. I don't think there's any, you know, I don't think there's any demerit about it. Yes. And some people will be like, I just have to finish school like that. You know, there's no any hint. Dragons, there's nothing in the Merida to hinder you from. We just can not going to school okay for not being a student that you want to be okay. Okay. So um Wow, that was a very wonderful section actually because I had something like 5050 pros ankle like you have to know how you have to manage yourself like being a student then being married. Like the advantages you have as being a student that is married is different from that of a student that is not married.

Okay mom, but what about the letters I'm assuming right now maybe I was fun stay very far ready stances and you're in schools and maybe you really need attention and or maybe you're close to exam period and all and you really want some attention from your husband. You think that the husband that staying in fire replacing where is well carrying into? We want to come here for his right because you need some attention. Why not? You as a student goes missing, you think it's something that is also an agreement? Okay. So at least for your house before you get married before you agreed or before you said years you guys would have had an agreement and your husband has to be an understanding. You'll be that it has to be an understanding. My understanding is that this my spouse is in school so I have there's limits to what I can request.

Okay. Okay. Like the distance okay. Um, because I was doing is um, and doing tests. I don't think there will be doing school activities. I'm doing this I'm doing here is, I'm committed to school activities pretty different. I don't think so. Uh, like there's no anyone who's never thought I'd be like, okay, this as quite as some days are always demanded very well. They will have time to, so it has to source parts have to give the other spells. There's those excuse of okay. Um, let me give an assist on a friend of my shows to get married. I'll mention that friend. So the some person granted Katie wants to get married to her by staying in a very far read to stand like not Nigeria. So, and she is a student here in Nigeria. So she was like, okay, number one that even do it, I want to get married in that staying in very far places.

Number two, she still a student. That has to be very, very strong, stressful for her. And the number three that, okay, what's it after is married? There doesn't have a time like it doesn't, it's not like okay that that it has to be like you said understanding between them, right? Communication. What about that doesn't matter in that kind of relationship. You know, longest time tradition ship is very hard for you guys to communicate with each other and then you're not married as the Australian flee out because you are a student actually students also like is he really that I can just to eat and have a correlation. There only will lead to disagreement between you think there's a way uh both of them since it's staying far staying here to that. I've also seen people that there are no students but yes their marriage life distance and you know the end of this technology. I think that the technology can help them and that's okay between two technology can so you believe that money does not really have more disadvantages like being a student and getting married doesn't really have disadvantages like that.

It has more of an advantage like more than disaster of disadvantaged. Right wow wow. So you hold it for my wonderful guests today. Like we were supposed to relate this back to yesterday but unfortunately I guess are some things she had to attend to gently. And she honored my request today. My invitation. Thank you very much ma'am. I really appreciate it. I really really evenly enough affair at least even lighting us about something. She is very nice. So you can drop your question and recommendation and your comment and please do subscribe to this channel. So uh mom please can you tell them your social media under so they can follow you any time already have any questions they can just ask you. Maybe you treat her instagram facebook. Yeah. Okay for my facebook. Okay my user name is so our facebook name is um Guzman Jamila.

Okay man, Djamila with the U S U C H M A N G N Jamila. You okay? J A M W E L. Let me come again. You C H M A N J A M W E L A Right Camilla. So that is our facebook and we can follow uh from my friends Uganda. Oh, my computer. Me uh hyphen. Uh okay, so you've all had and it's a very wonderful section. I enjoy it and I believe you do enjoy it also. So when do you want another podcast suggestions? Should come to appreciate it. Nice avenue. Yeah, listening to the end. Really appreciate it. Thank you very much. Bye ma. Any word for our audience before we just close?

Are we expecting no comments? And it is my first time. Okay, nice to me in the poster of me questioning any podcast, wow sincerely. I'm really busy uh these days, so okay, I'm prepared. Uh that's nice. That's nice. I don't know actually, I need to be on hold to be featured in. Uh that's nice. That's nice. No problem. No problem. Okay, bye everybody, bye. Yeah. Mhm

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